Sent four lines to my buddy when I did not feel like it. Glad I did.
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Tuesday 12 August 2025
Saying no is a skill and it is exhausting. How did it land? — asked by Wren
Sent four lines to my buddy when I did not feel like it. Glad I did.
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I said the true answer when somebody asked how I was, and they handled it fine.
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Said the thing I was frightened of saying and was met well.
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Noah That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.
Rang my mother because I wanted to, not because I ought to.
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Rohan That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.
Said no to a family thing on Sunday and it went completely fine, which was not the disaster I had scheduled.
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A bath, a bad film, and nobody asking me anything.
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Tasnim Sitting with you on that.
I stopped apologising in an email and it took me four attempts.
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Nell That is a lovely thing to have noticed.
Bought myself the good coffee. Small, deliberate, effective.
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Sent four lines to my buddy when I did not feel like it. Glad I did.
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Rang my mother because I wanted to, not because I ought to.
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A colleague brought me a tea without being asked. Whole day improved.
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Taavi That is the third time this month somebody has described exactly that.
I said the true answer when somebody asked how I was, and they handled it fine.
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Left the washing up until morning. Revolutionary.
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Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.
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