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Tuesday 12 August 2025

What did you say no to this week, and how did it go?

Saying no is a skill and it is exhausting. How did it land? — asked by Wren

LilPreston, UK

Sent four lines to my buddy when I did not feel like it. Glad I did.

5

Obi OEnugu, NG

I said the true answer when somebody asked how I was, and they handled it fine.

5

StellanMalmö, SE

Said the thing I was frightened of saying and was met well.

7

Noah That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.

AriaAuckland, NZ

Rang my mother because I wanted to, not because I ought to.

8

Rohan That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.

HannahSheffield, UK

Said no to a family thing on Sunday and it went completely fine, which was not the disaster I had scheduled.

3

BastianFreiburg, DE

A bath, a bad film, and nobody asking me anything.

6

Tasnim Sitting with you on that.

BrackAlnwick, UK

I stopped apologising in an email and it took me four attempts.

6

Nell That is a lovely thing to have noticed.

OzzyAdelaide, AU

Bought myself the good coffee. Small, deliberate, effective.

8

BrennaEnniskillen, NI

Sent four lines to my buddy when I did not feel like it. Glad I did.

5

ShadeIbadan, NG

Rang my mother because I wanted to, not because I ought to.

6

BodhiByron Bay, AU

A colleague brought me a tea without being asked. Whole day improved.

7

Taavi That is the third time this month somebody has described exactly that.

PrunellaBury St Edmunds, UK

I said the true answer when somebody asked how I was, and they handled it fine.

7

OllieCardiff, UK

Left the washing up until morning. Revolutionary.

7

HettyCambridge, UK

Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.

8

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