What the specialist service was like when I finally got there

Started 11 October 2024 · 20 replies · 216 hearts · read 2.3k times

WinkleWeymouth, UK · 11 October 2024

1.8 years ago

A question rather than an update: What the specialist service was like when I finally got there

Regional question, because I have read a great deal of advice that turns out to be true in one country only.

Here is where I am. The medication side has been more or less as described, and the part nobody prepared me for is everything around it: what to say to people, how to plan a week, and how to tell the difference between a thing to endure and a thing to raise.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

I will report back either way, because I have been helped by other people's follow-ups more than by their questions.

BlueStroud, UK

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

TressaSt Austell, UK

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK

I want to slow this down a little. There are four different answers flying about and they are all somebody's real experience, which makes them true and not necessarily relevant to the person who asked.

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FlorrieBlackburn, UK

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

SerenLlandudno, UK

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

MairéadMayo, IE

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

PerdyShrewsbury, UK

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

TabbyMargate, UK

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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IvesPenzance, UK

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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TobySwindon, UK

#10

I asked my nurse the same question and she said something I have repeated ever since: that the aim is to keep you on treatment, not to get you up the schedule.

TildaCambridge, UK

#11

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

Similar here, and mine turned out to be a completely unrelated deficiency picked up on bloods.

PerryCardigan, UK

#12

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

IvorLlanelli, UK

#13

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

HollyBath, UK

#14

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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TillyHereford, UK

#15

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

KeeleyBlackpool, UK

#16

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

NevGrimsby, UK

#17

I would take that to a clinician rather than to us, and I would do it this week. Not because it is definitely serious — because it is the sort of thing that is much easier to rule out than to worry about.

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BronLincoln, UK

#18

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK

#19

Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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PersisBristol, UK

#20

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.