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Manila family meals and adjusting kindly

Started 8 August 2025 · 18 replies · 191 hearts · read 3k times

NikoTbilisi, GE · 8 August 2025
11 months ago

Something I have been sitting with: Manila family meals and adjusting kindly Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

Regional question, because I have read a great deal of advice that turns out to be true in one country only.

What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this was, and how long it went on for.

I have read the guides here, which were more useful than anything else I have found, and I still have a question they do not cover.

Not looking for a plan. Just company and whatever anyone has found.

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NkechiAbuja, NG
#1

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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ShadeIbadan, NG
#2

Reading the opening post, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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Gently: you have apologised three times in a post where you have done nothing that requires an apology.

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AmmiKarachi, PK
#4

Practical, boring answer: write the three questions down before you go in. I have never once remembered them otherwise.

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PipBristol, UK
#5

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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AbelAddis Ababa, ET
#6

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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OsipTbilisi, GE
#7

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#8

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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ÖzlemIzmir, TR
#9

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

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ZoraSarajevo, BA
#10

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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NylaNairobi, KE
#11

I asked my nurse the same question and she said something I have repeated ever since: that the aim is to keep you on treatment, not to get you up the schedule.

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NissaHaifa, IL
#12

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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BryherIsles of Scilly, UK
#13

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

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GaelanInverurie, UK
#14

Similar here, and mine turned out to be a completely unrelated deficiency picked up on bloods.

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Gwen DAberystwyth, UK
#15

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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ObiLagos, NG
#16

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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HettyCambridge, UK
#18

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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