Starting a thread on this because it keeps coming up in ones and twos: Ginger did nothing for me and I feel cheated
Squeamish subject, so I am going to be plain about it and get it over with.
I have written down what has actually happened, in order, because I find that more useful than my summary of it.
What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.
I will report back either way, because I have been helped by other people's follow-ups more than by their questions.
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