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My husband thinks I am too old for this

Started 17 December 2024 · 15 replies · 174 hearts · read 2.5k times

OttilieCheshire, UK · 17 December 2024
1.6 years ago

My husband thinks I am too old for this Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is.

I have read the guides here, which were more useful than anything else I have found, and I still have a question they do not cover.

What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#1

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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PietPretoria, ZA
#2

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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RenFacilitatorBristol, UK
#3

What the opening post described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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EdwynNewcastle, UK
#4

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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OllyReading, UK
#5

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#6

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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NikoTbilisi, GE
#7

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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BertrandToulouse, FR
#8

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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OttilieCheshire, UK
#9

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#10

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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PietPretoria, ZA
#11

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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BrimHalifax, UK
#12

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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EdwynNewcastle, UK
#13

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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Reading the reply above, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#15

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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