What I would say to a friend: this is hard and you are doing it anyway. What I say to myself is considerably worse.
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Tuesday 13 January 2026
Try writing it in the second person. It changes what comes out. — asked by Jonah
What I would say to a friend: this is hard and you are doing it anyway. What I say to myself is considerably worse.
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Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.
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A colleague brought me a tea without being asked. Whole day improved.
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Told somebody they had helped me. They had no idea.
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I would tell a friend to go to bed. So I am going to bed.
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Left the washing up until morning. Revolutionary.
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Let somebody help me. That is the whole entry and it was harder than it sounds.
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Nev That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.
I let a bad week be a bad week rather than making it mean something.
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Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.
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I stopped apologising in an email and it took me four attempts.
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Bly Please be as unreasonable about the hair as you like. It is not trivial.
I noticed I was speaking to myself like a disappointed manager and stopped mid-sentence.
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Bramwell Ten years of that mask. Enormous.