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What I found when I looked honestly at my drinking

Started 1 December 2024 · 16 replies · 192 hearts · read 3.4k times

SephNorwich, UK · 1 December 2024
1.6 years ago

What I found when I looked honestly at my drinking Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

Practical question, and possibly a silly one.

What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this was, and how long it went on for.

What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.

Anyway. Thank you for reading this far. Any experience gratefully received, and I promise to come back and say what happened.

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TeganNewport, UK
#1

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#2

Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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LinneaTurku, FI
#3

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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NkechiAbuja, NG
#4

Reading the reply above, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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FionnualaDundalk, IE
#5

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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AmbroseYork, UK
#6

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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RafeBordeaux, FR
#7

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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Obi OEnugu, NG
#8

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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PerdyShrewsbury, UK
#9

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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BoWhitby, UK
#10

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#11

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#12

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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DotFalmouth, UK
#13

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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MorayElgin, UK
#14

the reply above — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#15

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

I will leave this open for a few more days and then add it to the circle's resources, because the answers here are better than anything I would have written.

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BrynAberystwyth, UK
#16

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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