A question rather than an update: I paused for two months and it was the right call
I have a letter in front of me and I do not know what it actually says.
I am aware some of this may be nothing. I would still like to know whether other people have had it, because I have spent a fortnight assuming I am the only one.
What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this was, and how long it went on for.
Anyway. Thank you for reading this far. Any experience gratefully received, and I promise to come back and say what happened.
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