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What I would do if I had to choose again

Started 25 September 2024 · 23 replies · 281 hearts · read 4.8k times

NadirCasablanca, MA · 25 September 2024
1.8 years ago

Starting a thread on this because it keeps coming up in ones and twos: What I would do if I had to choose again

Money post. No apologies, this circle is for it.

I have read the guides here, which were more useful than anything else I have found, and I still have a question they do not cover.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

Not looking for a plan. Just company and whatever anyone has found.

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ZoëHackney, UK
#1

I asked my nurse the same question and she said something I have repeated ever since: that the aim is to keep you on treatment, not to get you up the schedule.

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GavinDundee, UK
#2

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#3

Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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MoBradford, UK
#4

the opening post — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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GwennoPwllheli, UK
#5

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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SaffHastings, UK
#6

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#7

Reading the reply above, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Practical, boring answer: write the three questions down before you go in. I have never once remembered them otherwise.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#8

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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KateBelfast, NI
#9

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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HettieLancaster, UK
#10

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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PeronelCanterbury, UK
#11

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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NadirCasablanca, MA
#12

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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ZoëHackney, UK
#13

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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GavinDundee, UK
#14

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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LlianCarmarthen, UK
#15

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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MoBradford, UK
#16

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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GwennoPwllheli, UK
#17

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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SaffHastings, UK
#18

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#19

Similar here, and mine turned out to be a completely unrelated deficiency picked up on bloods.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#20

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

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KateBelfast, NI
#21

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#22

Gently: you have apologised three times in a post where you have done nothing that requires an apology.

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PeronelCanterbury, UK
#23

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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