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Two weeks on, two weeks off, offshore

Started 22 January 2025 · 13 replies · 155 hearts · read 1.9k times

OrrinGlasgow, UK · 22 January 2025
1.5 years ago

Two weeks on, two weeks off, offshore Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is.

The thing that has surprised me most is how much of this is about other people rather than about me.

What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.

Not looking for a plan. Just company and whatever anyone has found.

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LulaBournemouth, UK
#1

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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BethanPontypridd, UK
#2

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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Before anyone offers a remedy: what has been described here is on the list of things that need a clinician today rather than a thread. I am going to be firm about that, kindly.

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NoahHull, UK
#4

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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YannickBrussels, BE
#5

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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AshSunderland, UK
#6

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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PrueChester, UK
#7

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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TobySwindon, UK
#8

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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SamPortland, OR
#9

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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TorinBelfast, NI
#10

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

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MattNottingham, UK
#11

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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BoazHaarlem, NL
#13

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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