Life and logistics
Under 30
Money, pressure, long horizons, and complicated food histories.
This circle has its own weather. More members paying out of pocket, more people who have never had a long-term prescription for anything, more social pressure, and a real strand of members who came to this from a difficult place with food and need it handled with care.
There is also the honest question of what a very long horizon means, which nobody can answer with confidence yet.
Who this circle is for
- You are under thirty
- You are paying for this yourself
- You are thinking about what a decade or more of this might mean
Agreements here
- We hold the long-horizon question honestly: the evidence does not yet reach that far
- This circle works closely with the recovery-aware circle and refers openly
Twenty-six, paying out of pocket, watching every penny
Gwion14 replies
Something I have been sitting with: Twenty-six, paying out of pocket, watching every penny Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience. Practical question, and possibly a…
Being the youngest person in every waiting room
Nazneen13 replies
Being the youngest person in every waiting room Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think. Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was…
Dating and not wanting to explain
Tilda12 replies
Dating and not wanting to explain Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think. The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is. I am aware some of this may be…
A difficult history with food and starting this anyway
Gwion17 replies
A difficult history with food and starting this anyway Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think. Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read…
Fertility questions at 28
Tobin10 replies
Fertility questions at 28 — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in. Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for…
Friends asking me to share and how I said no
Tallis16 replies
A question rather than an update: Friends asking me to share and how I said no The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is. The thing that has surprised me most is how…
How I budget for this on a graduate salary
Osman20 replies
Something I have been sitting with: How I budget for this on a graduate salary Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience. Practical question, and possibly a silly one. I…
Nights out, drinking and a reduced appetite
Florrie17 replies
A question rather than an update: Nights out, drinking and a reduced appetite Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for someone with a…
Two years in at 24 and what I would tell myself
Gabe22 replies
Two years in at 24 and what I would tell myself — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in. Practical question, and possibly a silly one. My prescriber has been…
Living at home and hiding the box
Torrin20 replies
Living at home and hiding the box — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in. The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is. I am aware some…
What a twenty-year horizon might mean, and what nobody knows
Tobin18 replies
Starting a thread on this because it keeps coming up in ones and twos: What a twenty-year horizon might mean, and what nobody knows The logistics of this are defeating me more than the…
The GP who would not prescribe and the one who would
Torin24 replies
A question rather than an update: The GP who would not prescribe and the one who would Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for someone…
Social media made this so much worse for me
Gwen15 replies
Social media made this so much worse for me Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think. Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written…
My mother thinks I am too young
Tilda24 replies
My mother thinks I am too young — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in. The logistics of this are defeating me more than the medicine is. What I would find…