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Buddy story · Strength

The gym and the chair

Lena lifts heavy things in Munich. Wilf, in his seventies, does eight minutes and a chair. Ren regards this as the ideal pairing.

Lena and Wilf
Paired
August 2024
Cadence
Mondays
Status
ongoing

Ren's position, stated often enough that members quote it back at her, is that strength is the part you keep and that the format is nearly irrelevant. This pairing is her evidence.

Lena had assumed she would be the one giving advice. What actually happened is that Wilf, who has never been in a gym, has the better adherence record of the two by a distance, because his session is eight minutes long and requires a chair and cannot be defeated by a bad week. Lena has had two long lay-offs. Wilf has had none.

She has since rebuilt her own worst-week plan around his, and the routine is written up at eight minutes and a chair. Wilf, for his part, has started doing one thing that is genuinely difficult each week, which was Lena's only real contribution and which he grumbles about weekly.

Eight minutes and a chair. It is not impressive and I have not missed a week in two years, which I am told is the impressive part.

I lift more than him and I have twice stopped for a month. His version cannot be stopped by a bad fortnight. Mine can.

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