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Talking to my GP without dying of embarrassment

Started 2 August 2025 · 18 replies · 160 hearts · read 2.8k times

VeraRiga, LV · 2 August 2025
12 months ago

Talking to my GP without dying of embarrassment — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in.

I have avoided asking about this for six weeks out of pure embarrassment.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

I am aware some of this may be nothing. I would still like to know whether other people have had it, because I have spent a fortnight assuming I am the only one.

The thing that has surprised me most is how much of this is about other people rather than about me.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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TeganNewport, UK
#1

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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PerryCardigan, UK
#2

Gently disagreeing with the opening post, or rather adding the other half of it.

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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TomásFacilitatorLisbon, Portugal
#3

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HarlanDenver, CO
#4

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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IvorLlanelli, UK
#5

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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TamzinPoole, UK
#6

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#7

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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XanBerlin, DE
#8

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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PoppyLeeds, UK
#9

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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LeniLeipzig, DE
#10

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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VeraRiga, LV
#11

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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TeganNewport, UK
#12

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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PerryCardigan, UK
#13

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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GwythFishguard, UK
#14

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

I would take that to a clinician rather than to us, and I would do it this week. Not because it is definitely serious — because it is the sort of thing that is much easier to rule out than to worry about.

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HarlanDenver, CO
#15

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

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IvorLlanelli, UK
#16

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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TomásFacilitatorLisbon, Portugal
#17

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Two things, both boring. First, none of us can tell you what to take. Second, the conversation you want to have is with your prescriber, and we can help you write it down.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#18

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

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