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Eating at 4am in a staff room

Started 7 October 2024 · 19 replies · 228 hearts · read 3k times

KezWigan, UK · 7 October 2024
1.8 years ago

A question rather than an update: Eating at 4am in a staff room

Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for someone with a completely different week.

The thing that has surprised me most is how much of this is about other people rather than about me.

What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this was, and how long it went on for.

I have read the guides here, which were more useful than anything else I have found, and I still have a question they do not cover.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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NettieBarrow, UK
#1

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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BassCoventry, UK
#2

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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Before anyone offers a remedy: what has been described here is on the list of things that need a clinician today rather than a thread. I am going to be firm about that, kindly.

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AshSunderland, UK
#4

the opening post said something I want to sit with for a second.

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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TychoLeiden, NL
#5

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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BoazHaarlem, NL
#6

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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NolwennRennes, FR
#7

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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HuwWrexham, UK
#8

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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RenataKraków, PL
#9

I would take that to a clinician rather than to us, and I would do it this week. Not because it is definitely serious — because it is the sort of thing that is much easier to rule out than to worry about.

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NorahDerry, NI
#10

the reply above — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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PrueChester, UK
#11

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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TobySwindon, UK
#12

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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OrsolyaBudapest, HU
#13

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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TorinBelfast, NI
#14

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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OdileMontreal, CA
#15

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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OrrinGlasgow, UK
#16

Reading the reply above, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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TorrinAberdeen, UK
#17

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Practical, boring answer: write the three questions down before you go in. I have never once remembered them otherwise.

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I will leave this open for a few more days and then add it to the circle's resources, because the answers here are better than anything I would have written.

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RillaAberdeen, UK
#19

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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