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The routine that finally worked for me

Started 10 December 2024 · 18 replies · 190 hearts · read 3.9k times

TeganNewport, UK · 10 December 2024
1.6 years ago

A question rather than an update: The routine that finally worked for me

Something is going on with my body and I would like to know whether it is ordinary.

What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.

I have written down what has actually happened, in order, because I find that more useful than my summary of it.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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GwythFishguard, UK
#1

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#2

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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PoppyLeeds, UK
#3

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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TomásFacilitatorLisbon, Portugal
#4

Thank you for writing this. I am not going to add information to it. I am going to say that what you have described is very common and very rarely said out loud.

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VeraRiga, LV
#5

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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HarlanDenver, CO
#6

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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TamzinPoole, UK
#7

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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PerryCardigan, UK
#8

the reply above — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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IvorLlanelli, UK
#9

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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LeniLeipzig, DE
#10

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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TeganNewport, UK
#11

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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GwythFishguard, UK
#12

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#13

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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PoppyLeeds, UK
#14

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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XanBerlin, DE
#15

Practical, boring answer: write the three questions down before you go in. I have never once remembered them otherwise.

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VeraRiga, LV
#16

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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TomásFacilitatorLisbon, Portugal
#17

Gently: you have apologised three times in a post where you have done nothing that requires an apology.

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TamzinPoole, UK
#18

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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